Sometimes I wonder if people say or write things, almost like clues, as if they want you to know something they would never openly tell you. Or maybe they are just careless, or the message isn't intended for you. Sometimes I wonder if someone knew that you already know something they have done, if they would admit to it, maybe even apologize. I guess people aren't all that different from celebrities - you have to confront them before they admit to anything. Look at the Atlanta resident who really disappointed me recently. I was a big fan of this individual throughout college and really enjoyed the whole whirlwind. Quite an experience.
Just recently he confessed to some pretty horrible crimes only after being cornered by all of his associates. And now he is suddenly very apologetic - real sincere.
I guess you could be somewhat culpable for some one's actions if you don't take steps to prevent them from continuing. But then, who would have thought they would have continued? Sometimes changing something you don't want to forget is quite a hassle, after all.
Anyways, I'm not much for confrontation - I'm slowly learning you can't force someone to make a decision. I know enough, and the rest I may never understand. We all have to make our own decisions, and become them.
I will go in this way
And find my own way out
I wont tell you to stay
But I'm coming to much more
Me
All at once the ghosts come back
~Dave Matthews, #41
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